The Comparison Game

Read: Exodus 20:12-15; Ephesians 4:25-32

Alastair walked into the kitchen where his sister Stasia was doing homework.

“Emerson got in trouble again,” said Alastair. “I can’t believe he’s going to flunk math over this!”

Stasia looked up in surprise. “Over what? What did he do?”

“Mr. Hoover caught him looking at somebody’s paper during a test,” Alastair replied. “Emerson said he was just checking one or two answers. That’s all. I think Mr. Hoover just hates Emerson, so he’s making a big deal out of nothing.”

“Well, if Emerson was caught cheating, what did he expect?” Stasia asked.

“It’s not like he was stealing somebody’s money during gym class,” said Alastair, trying to make his sister understand. “Other kids in school do a lot worse stuff than what Emerson did.” Alastair turned to Mom, who was loading the dishwasher. “Can you hand me a glass, Mom? I’d like some juice.”

“Sure,” said Mom, and she handed him a dirty glass.

Alastair grimaced. “Yuck! I can’t drink out of this. There’s still dried milk in the bottom of it.”

“But it’s cleaner than these others that need to be washed,” Mom said.

Alastair didn’t say anything right away. He was pretty sure this had something to do with what they were just talking about, and he was trying to figure out what it was.

“After all,” Mom continued, “if cheating is no big deal because it doesn’t seem as bad as what somebody else did, then a little dried milk in a glass shouldn’t be a big deal either, as long as it’s not as dirty as the other glasses.”

“Oh, well, I…um…” Alastair didn’t know what to say.

“It can be easy for us to excuse the wrongdoing of our friends—and especially our own wrongs—because someone else did something that seems worse,” Mom explained. “But it’s all sin in God’s eyes. After all, cheating is stealing too—it’s stealing the work someone else did and claiming it as your own, which is a sin, and it hurts them just as much as if you were stealing their money.”

Alastair nodded. “Sorry, Mom.” He looked at the glass in his hand. “I guess I’ll wait to have some juice, since all the glasses are dirty.”

–Mike A. Dize

How about you? Do you think it’s okay to do some things because they don’t seem as bad as other things people do? Do you overlook cheating or lying because it’s not as bad as robbery or murder? God says all wrongdoing is sin. No matter what other people think about it, it’s hurtful to others and disobedient to God. Don’t excuse any form of wrongdoing. If you’re the one at fault, confess your sin to Jesus and He will forgive you.

Today's Key Verse: All wrongdoing is sin. (NIV) 1 John 5:17

Today's Key Thought: All wrongdoing is sin