Not Your Fault

Bible Reading: Psalm 147:3-5, 11

Sophia’s whole body shook with sobs. “Sophia,” said Aunt Kelly, comforting her, “please try to stop crying so you can tell me what’s wrong.”

With great effort, Sophia did her best to control her tears. Her breath caught in her throat as she said, “Mom and Dad just told me they’re getting a divorce. I think it’s all my fault.” Fresh tears rolled down her cheeks.

Aunt Kelly put her arms around Sophia. “I can understand how hurt you are, but you can’t blame yourself, Sophia. You had nothing to do with your parents’ divorce.”

“But if I had been better, maybe Dad and Mom would have gotten along better too,” Sophia said. “I haven’t always obeyed them, and I can be difficult sometimes. I’ve caused them trouble and made them worry.”

“When a couple gets divorced, their kids often blame themselves,” said Aunt Kelly. “But they shouldn’t. You are not the reason for your parents’ divorce.”

“Are you sure?” asked Sophia tearfully.

“Absolutely!” said Aunt Kelly. “I know this is a very painful situation, and when we feel overwhelmed with sadness, it can make us think we could have avoided it if we’d done something differently. But believe me, it’s not your fault.” She picked up her Bible from the coffee table and turned the pages. “God has comforting words for those whose hearts hurt deeply like yours does right now. Psalm 147 says the Lord ‘heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.’”

Sophia wiped her eyes. “How would He do that?”

“One thing I believe He’ll do is put people in your life—me and others—who will help you through this hard time,” said Aunt Kelly. “But most importantly, Jesus promises to be with you when you’re hurting. He went through great suffering Himself in order to save you when He died on the cross, and He offers comfort and healing for broken hearts. Pray every day and read your Bible so He can help you by reminding you of His love. Little by little, you’ll begin to feel better.” Aunt Kelly gave Sophia a hug. “Shall we pray together right now?”

Sophia nodded. Although she still felt very sad, she bowed her head as Aunt Kelly began to pray. • Carolyn E. Yost

How About You?

Are you hurting because your parents got divorced? Do you blame yourself? Don’t! It is not your fault. It’s something between only them. Or maybe you’re dealing with a different kind of painful situation, like the death of a loved one. Whatever it is, remember that Jesus is with you. He wants to offer you His healing comfort and peace. Trust Him to heal your broken heart.

Today’s Key Verse:
Psalm 147:3 He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds. (NKJV)

Today’s Key Thought:

Jesus heals broken hearts