No Cheese for You

Read: Proverbs 22:6; Ephesians 6:1-3

“How about slicing this cheese, Bryson?” Mom said as Bryson helped her prepare sandwiches for lunch.

“Sure,” said Bryson. He got out the cheese cutter and went to work.

As Bryson began slicing cheese, two-year-old Asher ran into the kitchen. “Some!” he said, holding out his hand.

Mom shook her head. “Sorry, Asher. No cheese for you. It makes you sick.”

Asher frowned and ignored her. “Some, pwease!” he begged, tugging on Bryson’s arm.

“I can’t give you any, Asher,” Bryson replied. “Mom said no.” Asher fussed a little more, but then walked away, obviously not happy. “Too bad Asher doesn’t really understand why he can’t have cheese,” said Bryson. “If he knew it was because he’s allergic to it, he might not get upset when you tell him no.”

“Parents often have to make decisions their kids can’t understand,” Mom said, turning to look at Bryson.

“You’re talking about the party last night, aren’t you?” he asked.

Mom nodded. “When you asked if you could go, Dad and I didn’t say no to be mean. Like we told you—based on our experience and knowledge, we felt it wasn’t the kind of party it would be wise for you to go to. That’s why we said no.”

“I think I understand better now,” Bryson said. “Well, at least I understand that you have a reason for not always letting me do what I want, just like you have a reason for not letting Asher have what he wants.”

“Good.” Mom smiled and gave Bryson a hug. “God has placed us over you to teach and protect you. We’re doing our best to teach you about Jesus and how to live in light of everything He’s done to save you. Someday we won’t be able to make decisions for you. As you get older, you’ll have to decide what choices line up with following Jesus for yourself through prayer, studying His Word, and seeking wise advice from other Christians.”

Bryson nodded. “I know, and until then, I’ll try to remember that you have your reasons when you won’t let me do things.” He grinned. “If I forget, you can just tell me, ‘No cheese for you.’ That should help me remember!”

–Hope L. Aderman

How about you? Do you ever think your parents make rules for no reason? God puts parents in our lives so they can use their knowledge and experience to teach us about Jesus and train us in the way He wants us to go. We may not always understand their reasons, but we can trust Jesus to use their guidance to help us grow in our faith and show His love to others. Trust Him to help you show His love to your parents by obeying them.

Today’s key verse: Children, obey your parents in all things, for this is well pleasing to the Lord. Colossians 3:20 (NKJV)

Today’s key thought: Obey your parents